Capturing What's Here, Right Now

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My Meager (but Growing) Family Photo Book Shelf

So one of my favorite past times is creating photo books to capture memories. Over the past year, I have tried to diligently create a new one every few months on some event or topic that was important to my family. Obviously, I do work on mammoth-sized books for vacations (seems like I have one in process year-round because they are so work-intensive) but I try to throw in a little one every now and again because life happens in between the big momentous vacations we save up for each year.

It is hard – sometimes impossible – but I devote as much time daily to achieve this personal goal. It is so critical in my mind as I have very little of my childhood memories “captured”. This lack of photo albums, scrapbooks, or mementos combined with a move across half of a continent 14+ years ago means that much of those years have faded away from my memory. (Honestly, I struggle even with some college memories but that may be for a different reason altogether … ) And so I endeavor to create a better opportunity for my children to remember their (hopefully) cheerful and fulfilling childhood through reliving the cherished moments we have together.

The regular season Auburn Majors Team

Recently, I put together a photo book for my daughter’s softball coach, who is a friend, colleague and a mentor to not just one but both of my girls. It was a pleasure to do this for her for many reasons, but most of all, because as a woman, mother and business owner, I knew she would cherish the final product as much (if not more?) than I would. You see, regardless of our efforts, no mother is able to capture as many memories as we would like. We all fly at the speed of life and with all of our engagements, volunteerism and commitments, we often take the pictures, save the ticket stubs, collect the programs, etc., but put off the actual work until a later, to be determined date.

And to have our memories captured and presented in a neat package is probably one of the best gifts on the planet (IMO). Which is why I took great pleasure in creating the book below.

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My new summer project with my girls is to start working our way through the boxes of memories we have stored upstairs – all the little items that document their life’s experiences to date. They can each create their own scrapbook (the original kind, not one of these cool new digital books!) of all the memories I have painstakingly collected over the years. My hope is to reminisce with them, remind them of other favorite moments, and yes, capture special memories that may otherwise fade. With baby #4 on the way, this seemed like a great activity to bond with them, create a lasting memento and clean out some dreadfully over-run storage boxes 🙂

So what do you do to capture memories? Are you a family photog with boxes or remote drives of photos? I would love to hear what others do to keep your family memories and experiences alive as the years march forward?

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The Year of the Black Dragon

So, I have a strong personality. This is something I have always known but I have learned over the years to bite my tongue and behave myself (usually). So in honor of the recent start of the new Chinese New Year, I have a story to share about animals, family, and an easy exercise for self-reflection.

A few years ago, I was selected to participate in a leadership development program and one of the exercises during our first session (an overnight retreat) was to analyze our classmates and determine if they were a dog, deer, lion or fox. I love dogs, and well, I really imagined myself as a dependable, loving, relentlessly friendly dog. Well, my group decided I was a lion on the first day (which I chalked up to them not knowing me very well), and on the second day, the entire group simultaneously confirmed me as a lion (which was borderline offensive, but of course forgivable). As soon as I got in the car that afternoon, I immediately dialed DH and the conversation went something like this:

Me: Hi, honey – so excited to be on my way home! Can’t wait to see you! (wag wag wag) So I have a question for you, if you had to pick whether I was a fox, deer, lion or a dog, what would you say?

DH: Definitely a lion.

Me: Really? Are you sure? The choices are a fox, deer, lion or a dog …

DH: Yup, I heard you. Definitely a lion…..

Me: (stunned silence)

DH: Why …. what do you think you are ….

Me: A dog of course. You know what, my reception is getting really bad, I’ll see you in a bit, ok?

And then I immediately called a very good friend and asked her the same question. And she had the same answer.

Upon arriving at home, of course the conversation with DH started right where we left off.

Me: So really, you think I am a lion? When I think of a lion, I think of someone who is territorial, over-protective, and aggressive?

DH: Exactly. (pause and then quickly adding) But those aren’t necessarily bad traits….

This lead me to an all-out defense of my personality and where better to build a defense than online horoscopes. Now I am a Libra (the best sign, btw) but I needed an animal reference. So I went in search of the Chinese Horoscope animals. My Chinese sign is a Rabbit (BIG SMILE) and below is one of my favorite descriptions:

Rabbits, like their animal counterparts, are quite calm people who do not exhibit aggressive behavior and will avoid confrontation at all costs. When angry about something, a Rabbit will approach it calmly and considerately, hardly ever raising his voice or becoming visibly annoyed. Because of their serenity, Rabbits seem to miss things, whether they are confrontational in nature or not. However, the Rabbit is quite keen and pays close attention to the situations developing around him. He is intelligent and quick and can talk himself in or out of most situations with no problem.

The Chinese Rabbit is one of the most stylish creatures of the Chinese Animal Signs and finds interest in different cultures. He is classy and sophisticated, and can be found adorning one of the latest fashion magazine cover looks. Rabbits also like artistic ventures, such as painting and music and are generally quite present in these worlds. They love top express themselves, which is evident when joining them at home for a function or a cup of coffee.

I was so happy because this sounded just like me. But then I noticed another website that talked about how the quick year-based Chinese signs that you see on restaurant placemats are not actually accurate. Instead, I filled out a more detailed search feature to find my real Chinese horoscope. And to my horror, found out that I am in fact not a rabbit but a BLACK DRAGON. (Seriously? Not just a dragon, but a black dragon??)

After reading this description, I have to admit that this actually sounds more like me than the fairy tale version of me I saw reflected in the Rabbit. Although there are some characteristics I need to be tuned into turning down, there are still some very nice “not necessarily bad” traits that I admire (mostly in other people).

Now the good news is that as of February 4, 2012 as the start of the Chinese New Year, it is now officially the Year of the Black Dragon. (which has to mean good things are coming my way!)

So what animal are you? Do your friends and family agree?

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A Little Taste of This, A Little Taste of That …

Each year In Manchester, NH, food eateries and mixologists join togetherRed.buytickets.JPG to end childhood hunger through an organization called Share Our Strength. Throughout the country, annual events called Taste of the Nation offer patrons the opportunity to enjoy food, beverages and good company while contributing to a great cause, and we are lucky enough to have an event like this hosted right here in Manchester, NH.

The Taste of the Nation event offers over 50 chefs from local restaurants as well as 30 vintners, spirits and beer purveyors. Once you are checked into this all-inclusive event, you and yours can taste your way through all of the available cuisines, choosing to taste any or all of the available and tasty offerings. My favorites last year were The Common Man, the Bedford Village Inn, Firefly American Bistro and Bar, Jacques Fine European Pastries, Shorty’s Mexican Roadhouse, and Mint Bistro. And Martignetti Companies provided the featured wines and spirits from around the country. Beyond trying cuisine from local restaurants you’ve been meaning to try, this is also the perfect opportunity to try a new wine or a new vineyard.

The Taste of the Nation is one of my favorite events in New Hampshire. Where else can you go out to eat at all these delicious restaurants in one night? Oh, and by the way, eat a light lunch because you get full fast with all these yummy tastings!

There are two ticket levels – general and VIP – and the VIP level offers premiere access to the event, including a VIP-only reception to kick off the evening. I highly encourage you to consider going VIP – it is worth the few additional dollars!

I have eagerly attended this event for the past two years and am looking forward to joining my favorite local establishments on April 20, 2011 for this culinary extravaganza!

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We found them at the Rotary!

Auburn Girl Scouts FlockingThanks to our favorite Auburn bikers, we discovered the latest location of our flock! They spent their day gracing the Rotary on the Auburn-Manchester town line.

Although we lost seven flamingos to unscrupulous passerbys, the flamingos have earned a lot of positive support from residents and we are looking forward to collecting orders and starting the fundraiser!

Which friends are you planning to flock?

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Flamingos Enjoy the Holiday Weekend!

Auburn Girl Scouts Flocking

Flamingos are in good company

The Auburn Fire Dept. hosted the Girl Scouts of Auburn’s pink flamingos at a little holiday celebration! Our flock enjoyed some cool time in the pool, and a day off after their long week on duty.

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Now this is a welcome!

Auburn Girl Scout Flocking

Flamingos Welcoming all Auburn Visitors

Sources have located our complete flock at the Welcome to Auburn sign! So glad to see the flock back together in harmony! We plan to coax them indoors for the weekend — just in case Earl proves too much for them! Look for them around town next week ….

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Pinky is in Auburn!

Auburn Girl Scouts Flocking

Pinky and Entourage back in Auburn!

We just received this picture proof that Pinky and her new entourage has been seen in Auburn! Does anyone recognize this location?

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Has Pinky put our fundraiser in jeopardy?

Based on the last comment from our fine Fire Department, it appears that our fundraiser may be in jeopardy! Silly Pinky has caused serious division in our flock and the flamingos may not work together. If only we could teach them the Girl Scout law:

I will do my best to be
honest and fair,
friendly and helpful,
considerate and caring,
courageous and strong, and
responsible for what I say and do,
and to
respect myself and others,
respect authority,
use resources wisely,
make the world a better place, and
be a sister to every Girl Scout.

Do you think we can heal our flock and carry on for the good of every Auburn Girl Scout??

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Just Missed Them!

Auburn Girl Scout Flocking

Counting Our Remaining Flock

At 6:32am, a few Girl Scouts attempted to stake-out the next location described in our last clue, but showed up just a few minutes too late 😦 This is a picture of one Girl Scout who is counting our flock – we are still missing our beloved Pinky …

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Proof of Life Request

All posts from this point are timestamped in real-time.

The Girl Scouts have discovered our partial flock at Griffin Public Library. Thank you for keeping them safe and warm last night.

We are grieving the continued absence of “Pinky” and are distressed that we have not received pictures or further instruction. At your first convenience, we request a proof of life so that we may rest easy that Pinky has not met her demise….

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